When someone offers you an olive branch don't break it over their head.

Ogre's don't take well to being told "Be gone with you then" and having an imperious hand wave worthy of the Merovingian in the Matrix movies tossed in their direction.

So yeah, six months and part of a week later this whole handfasting thing has turned out to be a very bad idea.

Stick a fork in it, it's done.